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1981年11月21日生まれ
神奈川県出身
上智大学外国語学部卒
2004年 J-WAVE
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オノ・ヨーコ

激動の数日間を終え、
荒れ果てた部屋をやっと整え、
やっと読みたかった本を読んでいる。

オノ・ヨーコの「ただの私」。

前からなんだかとても気になる存在であった彼女について、
私が知っていたことといえば、

平和主義者であること
ジョンレノンの妻であったこと
ショーンという名の息子がいること
芸術家であること
ハネムーンでジョンと公開ベッドインをしたらしい？
激しい女性であるらしい？

それくらししか知らなかった。

でも来月リリースされる彼女のニューアルバムを聴きながら、
彼女が私のおばあちゃんと同じくらいの年齢（73歳）
だということに気付き、
衝撃を受けた･･･。

まだ読み途中なんだけど、彼女の本の中で
「あぁ、そういうのって分かるかも」って、
とても印象に残ったのがここ。

＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊

私に会って、自分がしたいのに勇気がでなくてできないことを
平気でやってる女、というので、
（ジョンは）私に惹かれたのだと思う。
私のほうは、ジョンが臆病で自分のしたいこともできず、
政治とか社会を計算にいれて、ポップレコードを作ったり、
まともな家庭生活を持っている彼に「男」を感じた。

＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊

男と女の性質の違い、そしてその違いに惹かれ合う男と女。

　なんだけれど、

　ありがちな
「自由奔放な男と臆病で保守的な女」
　とは逆なところに、
　共感した。

　だって、
　「自由奔放な女と臆病で保守的な男」
　の方が、私にとってはリアリティがある。　

　本の中の『日本男性沈没』という章もおもしろい。
　元ポルノ女優でありSF作家であった鈴木いづみの
　『女と女の世の中』という小説に似てる。

　　2人の共通点は、
　70年代に現代を先取りしていた女、と言われていること。

　　今読むと、とても面白い。

＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊

　オノ・ヨーコ。
　賢くて、繊細で、強くて、勇敢。
　素敵。

| 01:36 | comments(37) | - | Posted by : LiLy

あたしもソレ読んだよー。
彼女の作品もさらに見たくなってしまうよね。
とってもストレートな表現が素敵でさ。
もいっかい読みたくなってきた！

| AYA komboo | 2007/03/22 9:40 AM |

LiLyがこないだ、その話するから
歌が気になって・・・
テクノでシャウトで73歳（￣￣）

凄いぜ！

| USARIN.NO1 | 2007/03/22 10:47 PM |

オノヨーコ。私もかなり気になってるょ。
＞自由奔放な女と臆病で保守的な男

あぁーすげーワカル！！！！
今まさに私、それ実感中。。！！

やっぱりLiLyちゃんの日記は見逃せないーー（＞＜）

| コムスメ | 2007/03/23 1:01 PM |

LiLyさんが読む本をもっと知りたい!!
LiLyさんがｵｽｽﾒ菜本をいっぱい読みたい☆

オノヨーコってあんまし知らない。。。
知らないからこそ今日紹介した本を読んでみようと思う!!

もっといろんなｵｽｽﾒの本教えてくださいね♪

| 菜の花 | 2007/03/23 2:47 PM |

確かに。逆だけど共感する。
自由奔放な女を愛したジョンも素敵！
（一概にはくくれないけど、日本男児は
保守的な女を無言のままに求めてるし。）
LiLyちゃんの本を読んでいても思ったけど、
女の幸せを尊重できる男はかっこいいよ。
それが出来てるヒトってすくないと思う。

p/s
記事には関係ないけど、
ドリカムの『MARRY ME?』ってわかる？
しあわせなキブンの時に聴くと（笑）
彼との関係とかにしっくりくると思う♪
今度聴いてみて＾＾*

| NAHO | 2007/03/24 11:12 PM |

オノ・ヨーコ。私にとっても気になる存在だったよ。昔読んだ彼女の詩集、「グレープフルーツ」？だったかな・・すごい衝撃受けたの覚えてる。
「この本を読み終えたら　最後にこの本を焼きなさい」
というページで動けなくなり。焼けなかった自分。
そっか。アルバムリリースするんだね。７３歳かあ。。。

| maki | 2007/03/27 12:00 PM |

＞臆病で保守的な男に・・・彼に「男」を感じた。
っていうところが凄く響きました。
私と彼もそうだから！

奔放で囚われない女と、大切な人達を
守る為に強くなろうとし、保守的になって
いく男、彼の、力強さと弱さに「男」を
感じてしまいます。

本読んでみます！！

| キカ | 2007/04/01 5:30 PM |

お前達　日本人は　アホ　絵に描いた　人種だね　救いようないくらい　アホ　ボケ
基地外の　集まりだ　あの女の　非現実的な
屁理屈は　自分と　日本人の　低俗にしか
通じないだろう　そんな　下らない者に
感動しているから　アメリカから　原爆落とされても　正しかったと　言われるのだ

| ももこ | 2009/02/23 8:30 AM |

他人の　家庭　入り込んで　不幸の　どん底に　追いやった　この泥棒　女が　何が
世界の平和だ　たいてい　過去に　過ち犯した　野郎ほど　そういうものに　執着するのだ　世界に　飛ぶ前に　てめえの足元　まともに　しろ　偽偽善者女　ジョンの　仕事よりも　それ利用して　てめえの　私服　肥やしてんじゃない　平和平和という前に　てめえが　破壊した事反省しろ　説得力なし

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